So after some more fixing and double checking everything came to the conclusion when my battery was hooked up backwards it fried as well. Question is can I use an ecu from a Gt for my spyder Gt ?
That should be alright since I have had personal experience. My situation was the opposite since I used a Spyder GT ECU in my GT. The ECU is shared between the two models anyways. Depending on your build date/model year, you may need to source an immobilizer ECU as well. I'm not sure what year model you have so I'll cover as many bases as I can.
Here is some info on 2001 Spyders (From TSB TT-133-13-002):
"If the vehicle's production date is early July 2000 (07/00 on the door jam sticker) or earlier, the 5th, 6th, and 7th digits of the VIN are E35 or E55, and the fuel cap is a screw-on type, treat this vehicle like it is a 2000 model which would require Immobilizer ECU replacement when the PCM (ECU) is replaced."
Otherwise, if you have a 2001 model with a build date later than 07/00, then you just need to replace your ECU. Only replace with another 2001 ECU because 2002+ uses a different camshaft signal and you will run into check engine codes and limp mode.
If somehow you get your hands on a 2000 model Eclipse ECU, or if you have a 2000 model, verify that you are getting the right ECU since there are Federal and California emissions models.
If you have a 2002+ you should be fine as long as it's not a GTS ECU. I'm not aware of any pin differences on later model Eclipses.
Finally, you'll need to re-register your keys to the ECU so you will need to either visit the dealership/locksmith or find a way to delete it through ECUFlash. The latter is somewhat difficult and has been discussed on the forums. I personally did not delete the immobilizer so I do not know of any useful information.