Need Head/Turbo opinions!

Need help and opinions, going for a money save/still power route, I believe now for sure I want to buy a 4g63 6 bolt *evo4*head and swap it onto my RS eclipse. Then I want to turbo it but would the tubes I'm looking for be the evo stock turbo or eclipse turbo? Need advice and stories, I've researched and 50/50 on yes/no for head swap some say it's a waste of money others say it's good, as long as I boost. Also need to swap out the tranny its an auto, want to swap that to manual. I HAVE done research even to the link that they always give to these advice seekers "http://www.club3g.com/forum/rs-gs/135922-rs-gs-fi-sections-alternative-search-button.html" and have read it multiple times. But I'm still curious, I've looked at other builds with a 4g63 head and stock evo turbo. I just need help on where to get started and I know most parts I need but not 100% on all. I know for turbo I need, Turbo, downpipe flange, piping, intercooler, blow off valve, waste gate, dump/elbow pipe, oil return line, oil feed line, fuel pressure regulator, boost controller, oil catch tank, turbo timer and gauges. Just want a push in a good direction. Wanting to start my build soon and start collecting what I need! Thank you and criticism is welcomed, I am also still looking at other peoples builds and more research but your input is completely welcome!