well, thing is when you change the color of your car vs repaint the same color, you usually double the price.. or you get crap results. open your door, what color is the door jamb? ohhh body color. that means you need to take off ALL the interior that touches that spot. smae with the doors themselves, trunk, hood, enginebay... see the labor price jumping up and up? plus there is just more prep work involved. a color change means you have to paint EVERYTHING. a repaint, just means sand it down.. add some color here and there, and reclear the whole thing. WAYYY cheaper, and easier.
that said, a nice silver/smoke look to go with the color you have now would be nice. silver grill, (light) smoked turns, tails, headlights, etc.. silver wheels. and maybe a silver CF OEM hood, with the edges painted in the same color as body would look clean and classy.
i did a PhotoShop like it for someone else with the same color car a little while back:
it isn;t the greatest (especially since his wheel picture was nowhere near the right angle) but you get the idea.